I got a page last night about the load on one of my customer's servers being pretty high. I jumped on to find some random processes that were running as the apache user. Finding these processes isn't too difficult as long as you know what user apache typically runs as and where to find the PID of the real parent apache process. Here's an example:
$ ps -aef | grep apache | grep -v `cat /var/run/httpd.pid`
